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Pages: 352

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My Exaggerated Life

Pat Conroy

with Katherine Clark



Published: Mar 13 2018


Published: Mar 13 2018

OA Ebook
Published: Mar 13 2018


The inclusion of this book in the Open Carolina collection is made possible by the generous funding of

An oral biography that reveals the Southern author's true voice

Pat Conroy's memoirs and autobiographical novels contain a great deal about his life, but there is much he hasn't revealed to readers—until now. My Exaggerated Life is the product of a special collaboration between this great American author and oral biographer Katherine Clark, who recorded two hundred hours of conversations with Conroy before he passed away in 2016. In the spring and summer of 2014, the two spoke for an hour or more on the phone every day. No subject was off limits, including aspects of his tumultuous life he had never before revealed.

This oral biography presents Conroy the man, as if speaking in person, in the colloquial voice familiar to family and friends. This voice is quite different from the authorial style found in his books, which are famous for their lyricism and poetic descriptions. Here Conroy is blunt, plainspoken, and uncommonly candid. While his novels are known for their tragic elements, this volume is suffused with Conroy's sense of humor, which he credits with saving his life on several occasions.

The story Conroy offers here is about surviving and overcoming the childhood abuse and trauma that marked his life. He is frank about his emotional damage—the depression, the alcoholism, the divorces, and, above all, the crippling lack of self-esteem and self-confidence. He also sheds light on the forces that saved his life from ruin. The act of writing compelled Conroy to confront the painful truths about his past, while years of therapy with a clinical psychologist helped him achieve a greater sense of self-awareness and understanding.

As Conroy recounts his time in Atlanta, Rome, and San Francisco, along with his many years in Beaufort, South Carolina, he portrays a journey full of struggles and suffering that culminated ultimately in redemption and triumph. Although he gained worldwide recognition for his writing, Conroy believed his greatest achievement was in successfully carving out a life filled with family and friends, as well as love and happiness. In the end he arrived at himself and found it was a good place to be.

Available in audiobook from Tantor Media

Katherine Clark is the co-author of the oral biographies Motherwit: An Alabama Midwife's Story, with Onnie Lee Logan, and Milking the Moon: A Southerner's Story of Life on This Planet (a finalist for a National Book Critics Circle award), with Eugene Walter. Her debut novel, The Headmaster's Darlings, won the 2015 Willie Morris Award for Southern Fiction, part of her Mountain Brook series, along with All the Governor's Men, The Harvard Bride, and The Ex-Suicide. All four novels were published by the University of South Carolina Press's Story River Books imprint, whose founding editor was Pat Conroy. Clark holds an A.B. degree in English from Harvard and a Ph.D. in English from Emory.The Atlanta Journal

"Much of what I loved about the book was Pat's wonderful advice to writers."—

"Conroy's humility and self-depreciation were matched by his ribald humor and larger-than-life personality; his warmth, charm and fierce intelligence. All of these qualities, and more, can be found in MY EXAGGERATED LIFE, a book in which Conroy bares aspects of his soul for some 330 pages, always with a quip, a colorful story, a cutting remark."—Lively Arts

"Delving into My Exaggerated Life will leave readers thrilled, invigorated and inspired yet, at the same time, wistful and grieving the loss of Conroy's one-of-a-kind literary voice."—Associated Press

"Conroy is unguarded and refreshingly open . . . this makes good reading not just for Conroy's fans, but also teenagers seeking a literary path out of the confusion as well as grown-ups reckoning with their own lives."—Kirkus Reviews

"In 'My Exaggerated Life,' Conroy truly tells all. In his own approachable and witty voice, he reveals his art, his craft, his family and his foibles. . . Delving into 'My Exaggerated Life' will leave readers thrilled, invigorated and inspired yet, at the same time, wistful and grieving the loss of Conroy's one-of-a-kind literary voice."—Kim Curtis, Associated Press

"Pat Conroy was a major American artist, full stop. He was one of the very rare artists capable of making you weep like a child after having read one paragraph, only to be laughing out loud at what transpires in the next. I bought everything he ever wrote as soon as it was published and devoured them all immediately. His books made both my heart and view of the world larger."—Jonathan Carroll, award-winning author of modern fantasy and slipstream novels

"This book is the closest a reader can come to knowing Pat Conroy as he really was: big-hearted, wickedly funny, and completely unforgettable, even when his demons threatened to get the better of him. No one was more generous toward other writers, or more encouraging to those who sought his counsel. No one better understood the power of stories to save lives. A great light went out on March 4, 2016, but Katherine Clark has done the world a profound service by rekindling it in these pages."—Bronwen Dickey, author of Pit Bull: The Battle over an American Icon

"an unforgettable experience reading and feeling Conroy's words."—Southeastern Librarian

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