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Otherwise, I'm Fine

A Memoir

Barbara Presnell

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978-1-64336-506-0
Published: Apr 22 2025

$26.99

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978-1-64336-561-9
Published: Apr 22 2025

OA Ebook
978-1-64336-561-9
Published: Apr 22 2025

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A daughter's story of unresolved grief and a family's hard-won healing

When her husband Bill died in 1969, Tina Presnell gathered her three children. "We won't talk about this," she said. "It will be easier that way." In 2012, several years after her mother's death, Barbara Presnell recovered her father's World War II belongings: a scrapbook, news clippings, documents, and letters. Recalling how much his war experiences had meant to him, Barbara, along with her estranged brother and sister, planned a journey to travel their father's route through Europe. From Omaha Beach in Normandy, France, to the western bank of the Elbe River in Magdeburg, Germany, the siblings would follow the movements of their father's division and rediscover his stories, share memories, and renew family bonds.

In Otherwise, I'm Fine, Presnell tells the story of her grief and, across her tour of western Europe, the breakthroughs that released her from recurring depression, resolved her conflicted grief for her mother, and returned her beloved father to her and her siblings as a living memory.




Barbara Presnell taught writing for forty years at UNC Charlotte and other colleges and universities. She is the author of several poetry collections, including Piece Work, and her work is featured in Listen Here: Women Writing in Appalachia.

"Otherwise, I'm Fine follows the intimate journey Presnell undertakes as she recaptures her past, breaks years of silence, and in the process restores her family. It is a powerful testimony that love overcomes grief."—Susan Fox Rogers, author of Learning the Birds: A Midlife Adventure

"Otherwise, I'm Fine is a story about connection—how we connect, disconnect, reconnect. Presnell is a gifted and gutsy writer. Her memoir is utterly compelling, full of longing and grace."—Judy Goldman, author of Child: A Memoir

"I have always admired Barbara Presnell's lyrical gifts, and in Otherwise, I'm Fine she has created a memoir, crafting a sacramental relationship with her long-dead father who suffered, fought, and then returned home from World War II's European Theater. Presnell's writing is lucid and full of details. This is a beautiful book."—John Lane, author of Gullies of My People

"With heartrending poignancy and powerful prose, Presnell's memoir ping-pongs between her traumatic youth in small-town North Carolina and her family's healing journey. As she and her siblings retrace their late father's steps as a young soldier in 1944–45 Europe, they open doors to reconciliation—on every level."—Holly George-Warren, author of Janis: Her Life and Music

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